tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post3649576995219805977..comments2023-10-20T15:46:23.420+08:00Comments on Orange: My Dear WomenaShyCarnalKidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06708483268962279495noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-40981781247204678642010-11-24T17:04:30.830+08:002010-11-24T17:04:30.830+08:00@Starry Eyed
Thanks :)@Starry Eyed<br /><br />Thanks :)aShyCarnalKidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06708483268962279495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-80841482181437631212010-11-23T18:49:04.927+08:002010-11-23T18:49:04.927+08:00Whoa, whoa, whoa! AWESOME post!!! Echoing everythi...Whoa, whoa, whoa! AWESOME post!!! Echoing everything the other commenters said!starry eyedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02821016011330573083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-33817507924863185542010-11-12T18:36:23.179+08:002010-11-12T18:36:23.179+08:00@Heyithikthisway and WritersBlock
Thanks a lot ....@Heyithikthisway and WritersBlock <br /><br />Thanks a lot . :)aShyCarnalKidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06708483268962279495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-37071112512634590672010-11-09T08:45:12.312+08:002010-11-09T08:45:12.312+08:00I can't tell you how much I loved this post. K...I can't tell you how much I loved this post. Kislay, you'll have women swooning over you for this post ;-) Just kidding. This was really brilliant. Hit the nail ON the damn head.<br />But what rankles is the fact that it is not just men who think this way, but women too, who believe the same crap, and ensure they mold their daughters and daughters-in-law into objects, while lividly denouncing any free thought. And I am not even talking about uneducated women. It is the middle aged women of today. Women of our immediate previous generation and the ones before, obviously, who are so narrow minded and cannot bear to see another woman actually living a more meaningful life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-8112707699238430152010-07-30T18:24:37.788+08:002010-07-30T18:24:37.788+08:00Hats Off Kislay..
I am overwhelmed to see a guy ex...Hats Off Kislay..<br />I am overwhelmed to see a guy expressing such a view..<br />The post sounds very bold..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-75980139873679878842010-05-19T01:36:51.140+08:002010-05-19T01:36:51.140+08:00@Indyeah
Took me quite some to understand , to un...@Indyeah<br /><br />Took me quite some to understand , to unlearn and to get rid of some of my prejudices . Its a life long process, cause I was born a man . Don't think too highly of me . :)<br /><br />@RDB <br /><br />Thanks a lot . I am not sure whether this is your first visit , but still , Welcome . <br /><br />@Chrysalis <br /><br />Ahoy ! Welcome back . Cant express well enough how sick I am of the perpetual objectification .aShyCarnalKidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06708483268962279495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-77190924642437645802010-05-18T04:52:47.115+08:002010-05-18T04:52:47.115+08:00Yesterday night I saw this ad on TV...on a desi ch...Yesterday night I saw this ad on TV...on a desi channel in UK...scantily clad women dancing to some erotic tune singing "I Love Puree Heera Puree...For God's sake it was an ad for Tomato Puree.<br />I also saw one selling cement and it had a woman coming out of the water???????????<br />I am dismayed at the IPL cheerleading squad besides many other things.. I am worried my 3 year old daughter thanks to all the imagery and verbal, non-verbal imagery around her may feel it is vital to have a certain body type, correct clothes to fit in. She will think the more she scantily dresses, the more attractive and emancipated she will be. The more she gyrates and bumps and grinds to some senseless lyrics the more popular she will be. And what a let down it will be when at the end of the day she still is "wrong" or feels "empty and worthless".<br /><br />Great piece Kislay. Well done yet again !Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00416492970175334719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-36319948183118036882010-05-17T05:41:06.205+08:002010-05-17T05:41:06.205+08:00I always get amazed after reading your posts relat...I always get amazed after reading your posts related to the issues of women ... Never seen such crisp and clear view coming from a male. <br /> May ur tribe increase :)<br />I absolutely adore the way you write...R.D.B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07907714359002990275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-26667598150794285072010-05-14T02:24:16.460+08:002010-05-14T02:24:16.460+08:00Knowing you, not surprised that this came from you...Knowing you, not surprised that this came from you. <br /><br />Surprised perhaps with the way you seem to have understood it all so effortlessly. Never thought it was possible for a guy to understand and write about it SO coherently.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />My respect for you just went way up there.<br /><br /><br />The commodification of women is something that disgusts one and YET you see educated,urbane 'creative' people coming up with one idea after anotehr.<br /><br />Amazing society we live na?<br />-----------------------------<br /><br /><br />Cant tell you how good it is to see your words here.<br />Your blog has missed you friend.<br /><br />And I too say..may your tribe increase.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-71613582792708536722010-05-11T00:33:38.614+08:002010-05-11T00:33:38.614+08:00@Shail - Thanks
@Ritu - I am a human first . At l...@Shail - Thanks<br /><br />@Ritu - I am a human first . At least I try to be . :) Thanks . <br /><br />@SS - Welcome to my blog . <br /><br />7 made me cringe . 3-4 ? I wonder what comes next .aShyCarnalKidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06708483268962279495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-86385239529357828152010-05-10T14:14:06.781+08:002010-05-10T14:14:06.781+08:00That was very hard hitting. And so true! The stori...That was very hard hitting. And so true! The stories about paedophiles is the worst. If you check Sunitha Krishnan's TechEd video, you'll know that girls as young as 3-4 years were trafficked and raped repeatedly by men. Spine chilling!SShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00094536687013970964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-18018856924118490162010-05-09T03:47:43.273+08:002010-05-09T03:47:43.273+08:00Oh wow! This coming from a man put me off balance...Oh wow! This coming from a man put me off balance! Hats of to you!Rituhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01311661584182041901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-51950486761711173672010-05-09T02:31:34.888+08:002010-05-09T02:31:34.888+08:00A telling post, Kislay.A telling post, Kislay.Shailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07013993041882385722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-15620637371825694092010-05-08T19:37:40.725+08:002010-05-08T19:37:40.725+08:00@Vetrimangal : Thanks . And welcome to my blog .
...@Vetrimangal : Thanks . And welcome to my blog . <br /><br />@Apu : Thanks Apu . One should think about what is going on with the other half .<br /><br />@Zivana : Thanks Z . I was never gone . ;)aShyCarnalKidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06708483268962279495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-58648830577088021842010-05-08T17:01:35.773+08:002010-05-08T17:01:35.773+08:00@IHM
Thanks . I dread coming across such gruesom...@IHM <br /><br />Thanks . I dread coming across such gruesome headlines while reading the paper. It disturbs the hell out of me . Shocking , that there is something called baccha baazi . <br /><br />@Bones :) You are too kind . But you forget that I am a man as well . I know I will slip at times . <br /><br />@ B K Chowla : What you say makes sense Sir . But there are certain areas , where even Education and economic prosperity has not helped much . Sexual discrimination at workplace, for instance .aShyCarnalKidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06708483268962279495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-34418062274276669892010-05-07T13:51:30.953+08:002010-05-07T13:51:30.953+08:00Bravo Kislay! If only more people could think this...Bravo Kislay! If only more people could think this way.. <br /><br />Most of the men in India practice many of the points you mentioned. What's worse, this kind of society has also conditioned women to think that from the time they are born, they are a liability.<br /><br />Just finish your biological purpose ( servicing the men and blessing them with sons) and leave.<br /><br />It's not surprising then, that many women would think that if a man molested or raped them, it might be their fault somewhere. <br /><br />Great post Kislay, good to see you back :)Zivanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15016900970038451058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-8371396301259852662010-05-07T12:53:33.578+08:002010-05-07T12:53:33.578+08:00Excellent post. Kislay. Glad to see that it's ...Excellent post. Kislay. Glad to see that it's not only women who are thinking about these issues.apuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07806361192017548240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-39771911375802170162010-05-06T23:59:52.059+08:002010-05-06T23:59:52.059+08:00So long as men like you are also raised, there is ...So long as men like you are also raised, there is hope.<br />May your tribe increase.Vetirmagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01881952063893739315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-80184596610354503152010-05-06T10:57:53.470+08:002010-05-06T10:57:53.470+08:00I suppose,unless we ensure education for all in th...I suppose,unless we ensure education for all in the country, this problem in the society will remain.<br />There are women who are doing so well.Once one is economically independent,problems start disappearing.BK Chowla,https://www.blogger.com/profile/03869011550287421537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-84715787651377568142010-05-06T10:11:52.011+08:002010-05-06T10:11:52.011+08:00Ah, Kislay, you will make your girlfriend/wife ver...Ah, Kislay, you will make your girlfriend/wife very happy...Not many men are sensitive to women as you are...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-86509655932745863192010-05-06T09:52:27.765+08:002010-05-06T09:52:27.765+08:00And for all the talk of clothes protecting women o...And for all the talk of clothes protecting women or provoking men - rape victims can be male or young children also. <br /><br />And there is 'bachcha baazi' in Afghanistan.Indian Home Makerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10649133480442907582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-49969785016509742392010-05-06T09:49:16.514+08:002010-05-06T09:49:16.514+08:00No words Kislay.
It's good see a guy seeing t...No words Kislay. <br />It's good see a guy seeing these things. This is bold and honest. <br /><br />For example - <br />There is a certain percentage of women - who only men can interact with. They are not treated like citizens. No laws apply when a crime is committed against them. <br /><br /><i>'27. I want a certain percentage of the women, to be set aside, for my , and my fellow-men’s recreation. These women, will be treated the worst of all, because of what they practice. The sleep with men, for money.' </i>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242492114432732161.post-33907516649577633252010-05-06T09:48:29.364+08:002010-05-06T09:48:29.364+08:00No words Kislay.
It's good see a guy seeing t...No words Kislay. <br />It's good see a guy seeing these things. This is bold and honest. <br /><br />For example - <br />There is a certain percentage of women - who only men can interact with. They are not treated like citizens. No laws apply when a crime is committed against them. <br /><br /><i>'27. I want a certain percentage of the women, to be set aside, for my , and my fellow-men’s recreation. These women, will be treated the worst of all, because of what they practice. The sleep with men, for money.' </i>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com